Miracle 4 Don

Thanks!!

2010-08-07T06:18:00.000-07:00

Thank you to all who have helped make Don and Barbara's move possible. It has been nice to do it slowly as you all know Barbara - the decorator - takes her time at deciding what looks good where. Don went home - Palco - for harvest with Dale and Josh, and Barbara worked day and night getting things ready for them in their new home.

A million thanks to Ed Runyon our "boss", person in charge of projects, man in the know for more hours of work than you can possibly imagine. Who knew Ed could do everything?

Thanks to the MNU football team and Rick Fields for moving rock - lots of rock, and lots of muscle work needed - those guys are HUGE! GO MNU!!

Thanks to a Sunday School class at College Church for landscaping work on one of the hottest days of July. Mark Brown and crew were amazing.

When Don returned from harvest he was very moved by all the hard work done to make their new place comfortable. It is much easier for him to get around and for that we are so very thankful.

Please continue to pray for the sale of the house on Lennox. Another miracle is needed on that as well.

Don continues to love going to the stroke center 3 days a week for therapy and social interaction with others who are recovering from strokes. Thanks to all the volunteers to take him and bring him safely home.

BARBARA AND DON WISH TO THANK ALL OF YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS AND WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT.
GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU !

Eaton happenings

2010-05-22T06:15:00.000-07:00

Since our last post, The Eaton farm finally sold and they were able to purchase a more suitable residence in Olathe. THANKS BE TO GOD! It will be free of lawn work but currently needs some work so many hands are busy getting it ready for their move. YES HELP IS NEEDED!
Don has been attending classes at the stroke center 3 days a week and is making progress in some areas. Please pray for them as they make this transition. It is a great deal of work for Barbara and still many decisions to be made. The next big concern is selling their property on Lennox.

2010-02-20T13:28:00.000-08:00

Many friends sent greetings to help Barbara celebrate her birthday. It was a surprise and she loved it.

Seizure

2009-11-10T12:11:00.000-08:00

Don had a seizure again this morning. This time he was awake and after a quick trip to the hospital and a change in his medication he is back home. He will however not be doing much chewing for a few days.

Thank you for your continued prayers for Don and Barbara as they still need to find a more suitable living space.

Thank you !!

2009-11-10T12:08:00.000-08:00

Don received MANY birthday cards and enjoyed every one. He also had several celebrations. I hope to be able to post some pictures.

Barbara and Don also sold all their horses, BUT before they did, Don took a ride on Addy. It was great for him to be back in the saddle. Hopefully, he will have many more opportunities in the future.

Don's birthday

2009-10-19T07:19:00.000-07:00

First of all please pray for the family of AB Showalter. He passed away last week. He and his wife were a great help to Don and Barbara through the years and Don had a very special bond with him. He was the auctioneer for Don for many years.
They will be going to his funeral on Wednesday.

DON'S BIRTHDAY (Friday)- I sent an email to many of you about surprising Don with a card shower for his birthday - no it is not one that ends in 0. However it is a MIRACLE BIRTHDAY - his 2nd since the stroke!! You can also leave bday messages on the blog as well.

Don continues to gain strength and his mobility is stable . His biggest hurdle is still not being able to talk. He is always patient as we try to guess what he is trying to tell us. Please continue to pray for this as is something that would greatly help is quality of life if he could communicate.

Dr. Don Eaton honored

2009-08-07T19:39:00.000-07:00

Don was honored at the Kansas City District Assembly for his years of ministry in The Church of the Nazarene. It was a wonderful public recognition of his service to God and the church.

DON IS HOME!!

2009-07-13T03:36:00.000-07:00

Harvest is over and Don is home. We are so very glad to see him. He really missed home, Barbara and of course the grandchildren.

After many tests and Dr. appointments, Barbara is better but still having issues. She has been busy looking for more suitable housing for them - maintanece provided and main floor living. Please pray for her on this decision and about her health. She needs lots of rest.

After being surrounded by his brothers and working at harvest she is concerned about Don getting bored. If you have time, Don loves to go for coffee, visit his farm and of course spend time with family.

Hopefully we will have pics to add soon.
kjw

DON ON THE FARM

2009-05-26T08:05:00.000-07:00

Don is in western Kansas - Palco - helping out at the farm. Please pray for Barbara. She is having health issues and in the midst of lots of medical tests. Don will stay out west until she knows more about her situation.

DETERMINATION

2009-05-18T08:56:00.000-07:00

Well as you know, the Eatons are strong-willed folks and Don is NO exception. He decided the lawn needed mowing and he was going to do it! AND HE DID!
However, he probably should have done it in intervals and ended up pulling some muscles that hadn't been worked for about a year. Next time he will do it differently.

They are going to reschedule their visit to the Horizon Ranch. Check back in a couple of weeks for an update.
KJW

Finally home

2009-02-15T04:10:00.001-08:00

We finally escaped the hospital at 3:30 PM. They did another test today. The internist wanted to check the condition of the veins that had ruptured. She said it is still blocked and the veins involved are ruined. She said he was not getting blood flow to that side of the brain.

In yesterday’s test they watched Don’s brain for over an hour to see if there was any seizure occurrence. There was none. But she is sure that Don had a seizure when he bit his tongue. But since they watched for over an hour and there was no repeat occurrences, that was a good sign.

The current choice was whether to add seizure medication to his current regimen. She said if seizure medication is started, he would have to take it for the rest of his life. Don made the choice not to start the seizure medication and wait to see if a seizure would return.

One medication change that was made is that Don will no longer take Coumadin.

Don seems really tired to me since the seizure and perhaps a little step backward was taken. But we are still praying that God would touch his brain and restore it to full health. We have seen miracles that God has sent our way through this time of illness. I still firmly believe that Don’s brain functions could be returned to their healthy state if God would send his healing touch. That is something we are praying for. Barbara

Staying in the hospital tonight

2009-02-13T14:11:00.000-08:00

Don was able to eat today, but they still wanted to do some test to check on the possibility of a seizure. He will hopefully be released tomorrow.
kjw

PLEASE PRAY FOR DON

2009-02-13T08:00:00.000-08:00

Yesterday Donnie slept exceedingly long. At 1PM I looked in one him and he was resting comfortably, so I thought perhaps he did not sleep well last night and I let him sleep on. Then I realized it was 3PM and I still had not heard him get up so I went upstairs to wake him.

He looked to be resting comfortably but I woke him anyway. When he woke, he indicated that something was wrong with his mouth and when I looked into it, the bottom side of his tongue was purple. I got him some water but he could hardly take a sip so I knew something was wrong. So I talked to a nurse……bottom line is that they recommended I take him to the emergency room.

I checked him into the ER at 4:35PM. We had to wait over 2 hours before he saw a doctor. They had enough doctor’s but they did not have any empty beds in the ER. We had great doctors and nurses check him out and bottom line is that he had bitten his tongue so hard in his sleep that his tongue was swollen and filling up with blood. So here we have a new problem. They did a CAT scan to be sure he was not experiencing another stroke. But because he could not swallow and therefore could not take his medication, they decided to keep him overnight. It took til 11:30 before they had an open bed. He is in East One…Room 1405 Bed 1.

Today they are going to do an EEG ERG or QRS TUV or something. (Weak attempt at humor.)If he did not have a seizure and he can swallow this morning, they will send him home today. If he can’t swallow, he will have to stay because he needs his medication. Barbara

Note from Kathy

2009-01-17T20:59:00.000-08:00

Please leave comments or greetings for Don and Barbara. One of the things Don loves to do is check the blog and his email. It will be of great encouragement to him to read your news and thoughts.
kjw

NEW YEAR NEWS!!

2009-01-17T20:41:00.000-08:00

Since coming home in October, Don has continued to improve. Madonna arranged for a 3 month follow- up appointment. They were shocked and pleased about the progress that he has made during his time home. This was especially true since insurance provisions for all of his therapies, physical, occupational and speech therapy had been used up at Madonna for 2008. The wheelchair is no longer in the house!! Don is able with the use of his cane to walk around the house. And what really shocked the specialist at Madonna was that Don sleeps upstairs every night and can walk up the full flight of 15 stairs every day and back down. They never expected this to be something he could accomplish.

Britney continues to work with her dad on his arm and leg exercises as she has time and progress is also being seen in the movement of his arm. Don is still not able to speak. They have been able to obtain through insurance Dynavox system which will help in many areas of his therapy. You can access their website and find out more about this wonderful tool at www.dynavoxtech.com.

One of the hardest days of the last 3 months was the day we had to clean out Don’s office at MNU. Don is now on total disability. He has been approved for Social Security benefits because he is disabled.

Don has made several trips to Palco with Dale his brother and very much enjoys his time on the farm. Josh is taking care of the horses at Hillsdale and plans are still uncertain as to what will be done with the horses considering the current state of the economy.

The holidays were great fun. Mary Eaton was able to come to the area and Britney hosted Christmas dinner for the family and Barbara’s family had their gathering on Christmas Eve. January 17th the twins turned 5 and there was much celebration. Needless to say, visits to Scott and Britney’s are frequent and fun filled. Grand-children do that for all of us.

Plans are to start Don back on his therapy during the New Year. Unfortunately, under the insurance plan, he will only be eligible for 20 days of each type of therapy, which is not nearly enough.

Barbara continues to be at Don’s side 24/7. In the coming days, the Madonna Doctors have suggested Barbara taking short ( 30 minute) outings to let Don take of himself .
Don loves visitors and watching a game on TV or a movie is a good activity for him so he doesn’t have to feel pressured to talk. Give them a call and plan a visit. It will do you as much good as it will do them to see the miracle that has happened in Don’s life.

Since coming home, Barbara has found a Doctor that was willing to test Don for sleep apnea. He has had 2 sleep studies and does indeed have sleep apnea. The Dr’s are working on getting him help as he stopped breathing 27 times in an hour during the test. This severe degree can contribute to strokes and heart attacks.
A.B. and Mary Ann Showalter have been great source of encouragement and strength. They like many of you pray for us every day. They put out a challenge in the late fall to the college and friends of Don and Barbara to match their donation of $1,000 to help with medical expenses and insurance. Thanks be to God for 4 who met that challenge. Each of these donations will almost cover 1 month’s health insurance. They are currently on Cobra which only lasts 18 months. Donations are still being accepted at Security Savings Bank. Many thanks go out to those who have already made contributions. Don and Barbara continue to face new challenges, but their faith and the prayers and support of others are helping them through each day.

A personal note from Barbara:
I am very thankful for the many things done by our Sunday School Class, Solid Foundation, to help us adjust to our new situation since we have been home. Many others helped prior to our coming home and although we attempted to make a list we are sure it is not complete. Thanks to all of you who saw the need and used your gifts and talents to help us. Thanks also to those that pray for us daily and encourage us. Those prayers and words of encouragement remind us that we have not been forgotten. Please continue to pray for Don as he adjusts to the loss of his career and ministry to the university and the churches on Mid America Educational Zone.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

2009-01-01T09:54:00.000-08:00

It doesn't seem possible that six months have gone by. We have lots to share and much to thank God for. Check back for a new look and new year updates!!

Trip to Palco

2008-11-02T04:45:00.000-08:00

Last weekend, Dale and Don went to Palco, their home in western Kansas. According to Don, his mother spoiled him as you might expect. There was also some talk about a ride on an ATV. Dan Eaton joined Dale and Don, so Mary had all three of her boys. In the past that meant hard work, good food, and some mischief and it appears nothing has changed!

Don and Barbara also attended their Sunday School Class party. Their friends in this class have been amazing to help with meals, bathroom repairs, and much more. Huge thanks to all of them.

We are still praying for Don's continued healing. Please join us in praying that Don will continue to make progress and that Don and Barbara will be able to meet the challenges of each day - emotionally, physically and financially.

HOME AT LAST!!

2008-10-19T14:47:00.000-07:00

Don and Barbara returned home on Friday evening and are settling in and working on a daily schedule. Please keeping watching the blog for further information.
kjw

COMING HOME TO STAY!

2008-10-13T06:43:00.000-07:00

Dear friends,
I know how busy everyone is, but I thought it would be fun for Don and Barbara to get welcome home cards or stop by if you live in the area during the days following their return. Please call if you are planning a personal visit as Don will have appts and you might even catch him at the farm.

Don and Barbara love to eat out - who doesn't so invite them to join you. Barbara also needs to run errands etc. so if you are a football fan, come watch a game with Don. His enthusiasm for football has NOT changed. I am sure he will be on campus and if his last visit is any indication will be a people magnet. There was lots of hugging going on. We are so very excited that they will finally be home to stay!

kjw

2008-10-11T17:21:00.001-07:00

It doesn't seem possible, but 1 week from today Don and Barbara will be returning to Olathe to STAY!! They have been hard at work these weeks they have been away and of course anxious to be "HOME". There will be lots of activity around the Eaton home this week and if you have talents or time you would like to invest, please let us know. (913-205-8542). I have not gotten an update on the account set up to help with expenses, but if you would like to contribute that would be wonderful. I know the prayers, cards and words of encouragement have carried them through many rough days. Of course, we will continue to encourage and pray for them as they return to Olathe.
kjw

Lincoln update

2008-10-01T18:14:00.000-07:00

Don and Barbara are back in Lincoln after a weekend visit home. Don is busy working hard and the pictures will show his adventures in water therapy. They will be in Lincoln until at least mid October. Your continued prayers for progress in his therapy is greatly appreciated. Also, prayers for their financial situation during these tough days as they transition to a partial income without benefits.

Olathe for the weekend

2008-09-24T20:45:00.000-07:00

Don and Barbara are coming to Olathe for the weekend to catch up on mail, family events and lots of fun.

The news from Lincoln:
Don is working hard on being as independent as possible. His walking therapy will include treadmill and water therapy in the coming days. They are looking into communication technology to help him share what he is thinking and needs.

He much enjoyed the bowling and target shooting. They said he was a bit nervous about the shooting but just needs practice. I think Dale has been nominated for that.

Don is looking forward to family time and playing games while home for the weekend.
It appears that the therapy in Lincoln will go till mid October. Keep up the good work Don and Barbara. We will be very glad to have you home but know that what you are doing is making a huge difference.

Looking forward to seeing you soon.

Weekend in Lincoln

2008-09-21T20:19:00.001-07:00

Well, I have never been to Lincoln but it sounds like it might be a quiet, slower paced town. Don and Barbara got a little adventurous this weekend. They went to Backyard burgers and Don walked from the car to the restaurant - WOWOWOW!! That was hard work I am sure and also quite exciting. After that they went to WalMart and Barbara thought Don might enjoy a motorized cart. Needless to say he was excited to try it out and off he went on this own while Barbara shopped. That was - I think - his first time on his own since the stroke. Barbara said she was shopping and looked around and here he came - driving his cart with a HUGE smile on his face. I bet that is an outing that will be repeated.
The group rehab outing this week was bowling and next week is target shooting. STAY AWAY FROM LINCOLN!! Weekends are rather slow since there is no rehab, but it gives Don and Barbara a chance to try things on their own and sounds like they are having some fun along the way.

Obviously, Don is continuing to improve - Thanks be to God!
kjw

GOOD NEWS!!!

2008-09-19T11:32:00.000-07:00

A message from Barbara:

We received a letter today from the Madonna benevolence fund is providing us $1250 for housing charges AND $9400 for outpatient and physicians services. The therapy sessions cost from $500 to $700 a day so that sill give us 13 to eighteen additional therapy sessions..God bless the Catholics!

This means we will probably have therapy till October!! This is a huge answer to prayer.
Thanks to all for praying with us. Also, our condolences to the family of Dr. Metz-he and Don had a special relationship.

Prayer request

2008-09-16T14:42:00.000-07:00

At this time Don has 8 days of physical therapy left at Madonna Rehab center. They are appealing for more time from the insurance company. Please join us in praying for additional days as Don is continuing to make progress with their vigorous therapy sessions.
kjw

Visit to Olathe

2008-09-15T11:52:00.000-07:00

Don and Barbara made a quick visit to Olathe this weekend. Don was all over town. Here is few places you might have had a Don siting. Austin's for lunch , Cabella's, Britney's house for endless football, Church with Britney and her family, and riding all over town. Barbara was busy taking care of business matters and cleaning gutters - you heard me - cleaning gutters. She got the front done, but if anyone has time the sides and back need to be done.

Two things to pray about. They are petitioning for extended physical therapy time and a special computer for Don to use.

Letters should soon be going out to friends of MNU, friends of the auction and the class of 1972 and 1975 about how to help with the catastrophic medical bills and rehab. Please tell anyone you know who may not have heard about Don's stroke.

2008-09-10T18:12:00.000-07:00

Don and Barbara will be coming home again this weekend for a very short visit. Don goes back to Lincoln for therapy on Monday. When I talked to Barbara today, Don was in a cooking class - making Nachos!! YUM!

Thanks to those who have already made contributions. They will be put to good use as Don has many medications and those Dr.'s bills just keep on coming.
kjw

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

2008-09-02T13:53:00.000-07:00

Many have requested information regarding an account to which payments can be made for the purpose of assisting Don and Barbara with expenses related to Don’s stroke. An account has been established with Security Savings Bank of Olathe, Kansas. The account is “Miracle 4 Don.” When writing a check it can be paid to the order of Miracle 4 Don. Those checks can be sent to:

Miracle 4 Don
C/O Security Savings Bank
Attention: Lora Keim
15670 West 135th Street
Olathe, KS 66062

Due to provisions of the Internal Revenue Code contributions to the account are not tax deductible by the donor. After consultation with appropriate counsel it was recognized that this was the best way to handle contributions from those who had expressed a desire to help. If you wish your donation to remain anonymous, please indicate such at the time you make the contribution.

Many have already given much by way of meals, cards, cash, checks, time, and services. Don and Barbara have been deeply moved by these continuing expressions of love. Without the many prayers, the miracles would not be happening. We all recognize our expressions of love are both action and prayer. Thank you for both!

God has been teaching all of us many things as we have shared this journey. There are more lessons of His grace and power yet to come. Please stay with us as we share the journey.
Don and Kathy Walter

Eventful Sunday

2008-08-31T15:53:00.000-07:00

Don had a great first night home trying out his new shower, having dinner with his family and watching football. Sunday, he went to church and was again welcomed by all who were so very excited to see the miracle they had been praying for. After lunch out, he made the long awaited trip to the farm to see his much loved horses. The neighbors have done a tremendous job keeping up with the horses for the last 3 months. Since Josh has moved home, he and Dale, Don's brother, have spent time loving on Don's horses and I am sure hard work is also involved. A hugh thank you to all the Hillsdale neighbors who have kept Don's dream alive.

Don is home!!

2008-08-30T16:06:00.000-07:00

Don arrived late afternoon to many well wishers with cheers and tears. It was an emotional reunion for all. Lots of hugs, words of love and encouragement were shared and Don was very moved by the love expressed by all. Thanks to those of you who live in Olathe and surrounding areas who came and celebrated with us. More news of his visit home and pictures to come.

Homecoming

2008-08-29T15:34:00.000-07:00

Bring your lawn chairs, noisemakers, signs and well wishes. Don is coming home tomorrow afternoon. Because of traffic and construction we will try to keep posted on their arrival. They are aiming for 3:30-4:00 so that they can have dinner with Josh before he goes to work. It will be a long trip and Don will be tired, but our noise, happy faces, waves and celebrating of his homecoming will make his day!! Come on out and get ready CELEBRATE!!
kjw

DON IS COMING HOME!

2008-08-27T14:42:00.000-07:00

This Saturday, Don is coming home from Lincoln. We are hoping that people will come and line the street to the Eaton home 1003 Lennox. It would be great to make signs, bring noise makers, and wouldn't it be fabulous if the line could go all the way up Sheridan!!

They are aiming between 3:30 and 4:00 and will stay in touch by cell phone. A meal is being planned by their Sunday School class for the family to get a chance to all be together.

We are not sure at this time whether Don will be Olathe for an extended or short visit depending on his therapy needs. I am sure it would do his heart good to be welcomed home after all these months by the people who have prayed for him and followed his story on the blog. Please share the news!
kjw

Sunday, August 24, 2008

2008-08-24T20:10:00.000-07:00

Barbara made a quick trip home this weekend to take care of business matters and check out the work on the house to prep for Don to come home. The shower is nearly finished and the bathroom adaptations to finish up this week. Please keep checking the blog as this week may have some exciting news. Don is anxious to return home and we are very excited that he may be coming SOON!
kjw

Monday, August 18, 2008

2008-08-18T15:03:00.001-07:00

We are receiving many emails about raising money to help the Eatons with medical expenses, paying for insurance when they have to purchase it on their own in November, and helping them not loose their house.

We are working on a fund raiser and hope to have more details soon. Please share the blog with anyone you know who has been a part of MNU, Don and Barbara's former churches, friends of the auction, MNU donor friends and people in Olathe who have loved them and been a part of their lives. Many of these people may not know about Don's stroke and miraculous recovery.

Don and Barbara have ministered to others for many years and MNU has benefited greatly from their dedication to the auction. Don has a wonderful gift of talking to people one on one and has raised a great deal of money for MNU. His devotion and love for the university is well-known.

Please feel free to email ideas to kathy.walter@sbcglobal.net

I learned today that College Church had an annointing service yesterday and Don was represented. They also had a fasting day today from 6:00 AM to 6:00 PM for all the sick of the congregation and many particpated and prayed for Don. Thanks be to God for the faithfulness of His people.
kjw

Friday, August 15, 2008

2008-08-15T15:18:00.000-07:00

Work has begun on the Eaton home to get ready for Don to come home. A shower is being added to the laundry room because we have been told that Don is a "3 shower a day man". This will make things much easier. Thanks so much to Stuart Clark and his crew. Barbara is spending the weekend in Lincoln and both Barbara and Don would love to read some messages on the blog. Is there anyone out there who can top 3 showers a day?

Wednesday, August 13

2008-08-13T13:15:00.000-07:00

Don is continuing to make such good progress that insurance is giving him more time for inpatient rehab. His walking is getting better every day and today his right arm was tingling so much that he had to sit down and take a rest from his therapy. HIS ARM IS WAKING UP! Thanks be to God. He is also spending time working on stairs which is wonderful since neither his home or office at MNU have elevator access to his bedroom ( at the house) or office ( at MNU).

Work began today on the house to make sure all bathrooms and doorways are ready for Don's return home. A huge thanks to Stuart Clark and his crew.

There have been some ideas shared with us about ways to help the Eatons. Keep those ideas coming. kathy.walter@sbcglobal.net

We will of course want to plan a welcome home! I am sure he will be so glad to be out of the hospital.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

2008-08-10T15:33:00.000-07:00

This was a fun weekend for Don. His brother Dale and his wife, Don's mother Mary and Britney took him out on the town in Lincoln. Barbara was home again this weekend taking care of business matters.

Sometime during the week the messages were erased on the phone at the house and Barbara feels bad that people may have called and she can't retrieve the messages. I assured her everyone would understand.

This weekend has had good and bad news. The good news is that Stuart Clark is going to come in this week and take care of all the handicap needs for the bathrooms so that when Don comes home things will be ready.

The tough news is that it appears they will need to sell the house and find another place to live by November when Don's short term disability is gone. This of course is quite hard for the whole family. Please pray for them as they face all that will be ahead, selling furniture and the house, looking for a different place in these economic times. We are in the process of brainstorming ideas and what can be done to help them at this crossroad.

Don enjoys reading the blog and it has been suggested that he would love to hear about what is going on in your lives. Email is nearly impossible to access, but he can get on the blog. Please write to him about you and what is happening in your family. That would be a blessing to him. If you know someone in or near Lincoln that could visit Don and Barbara, that would be great also.

The family continues to appreciate all the prayers, cards and expressions of love and care during these days.
kjw

Thursday, August 7, 2008

2008-08-07T09:48:00.000-07:00

Don's therapy at Madonna in Lincoln is going well. The following is an update from Britney who made a visit over the weekend and is back this weekend as well.

This week don has been able to use a special treadmill that has the ability to take some weight off his legs so he can practice his walking. It is a very popular piece of equipment and so he is going to use it 1 hour 2 days this week. He is very close to walking on his own. It is amazing and exciting to think that will happen. Britney was able to spend some time in the gym with him on Saturday. He worked for 20 minutes on the step machine which is twice the time he normally spends. He also went back later in the day and did 15 minutes. He is really focused on making progress. They are using electric stimulation and exercise on his arm to help with muscle tone. They were able to spend some time on the computer. He was quick to let Britney know that they were reading old news on the news site. His speech is improving and more sounds are being added to his list to work on.
With one exception, Dad is younger by more than 20 years than the other patients but he is in good spirits.
Thanks to all for you words of encouragment and prayers.

Saturday, August 2, 2008

2008-08-03T01:25:00.000-07:00

Barbara has been in Olathe this weekend after having spent the last several days with Don in Nebraska. The Madonna team, Don and Barbara have been working hard to carry on Don’s progress. Besides mobility, speech and language continue to be points of significant focus. While Don is able to take in information, both spoken and written, his ability to respond as he would like is limited. Please pray for yet more miraculous intervention in this area.

While this journal of Don’s progress has not addressed the topic of finances to any great extent, some have asked about this vital matter. As you probably know, Don’s work at the University has been the family’s primary source of income and benefits for some time. Up until now, Don has been using heretofore unused vacation, sick leave, and personal time. It appears that within a few days that will be exhausted, and Don will be placed on 90 day short-term disability, which will run concurrently with FMLA benefits. During these 90 days Don and Barbara will have salary and benefits continued. However, at the end of these 90 days, long-term disability will begin, which means a reduction of 40% of salary. It also means that health benefits will only be continued to the extent Don and Barbara can pay the COBRA premiums. Most of us would find the challenge of reduced income and increased health premiums a source of anxiety. Don and Barbara are no exception!

This 90 day disability benefit would have already begun had it not been for the donation of five additional vacation days from one of Don’s fellow employees. (The University’s Director of Human Resources indicated the organization has a policy of not allowing solicitation of these types of vacation day donations, so we are not sure how others may be able to also donate any days, even if they wanted to.)

Don and Barbara are grateful that the health plan of the University has generously covered the considerable expenses related to this type of illness. They are also fortunate that Don had several unused days reserved which could now be tapped. However, as these resources are exhausted, and the future holds the likelihood of continued need for health care services, there is growing apprehension. Every avenue of income and benefit resource is being explored.

We all need to be praying that Don’s strength and capacity to communicate improves to the point he can return to his assignment. As one friend of the family has already noted, God obviously still has plans for Don. And we know from scripture that God’s plans are for a future of hope and purpose, not for harm.

God is still greater than the setbacks of life. (That is easier to write or read than it is to live!) Pray with us that HIS plan will be made clear in these areas of critical life need.

Saturday, 26, 2008

2008-07-26T07:33:00.000-07:00

Josh returned home this week and has begun his new job. We are so very thankful to have him here. As you can see from recent information, Don is in Lincoln. Barbara is there with him and thanks to the Stanbury's, Debbie Ellis's parents, she is staying at their house for now. She will be moving into the Madonna apts soon so that when Don is ready to move to outpatient status they will have a place to stay. It is so amazing the progress Don as made during these weeks. A huge thank you to the St. Luke's staff. They developed quite a bond which I am sure helped in Don's progress. Since Don and Barbara are away from their support system in Kansas City, cards and comments on the blog will do a great deal to encourage them.
kjw

Contact info

2008-07-25T17:09:00.000-07:00

By the way, here is Dad's contact info in Lincoln.

Don Eaton, Room 152
Madonna Rehabilitation Hospital
5401 South St.
Lincoln, NE 68506

(402)486-8152

Dad has moved

2008-07-25T17:03:00.000-07:00

Hello!
Mom has been looking into sending Dad into rehabilitation at Madonna Rehab Hospital in Lincoln, Nebraska for some time now. A.B. Showalter (friend of MNU and Dad's) has been highly recommending this facility. They have a very good reputation for rehabilitation. Dad was approved by insurance to be transferred yesterday. He and mom arrived in Lincoln yesterday evening. He will now have a new team of therapists. Today mom said he had all three therapies and that during speech therapy he was able to say "My name is Don". That is very exciting news!

I want to take a moment to thank everyone who has worked with him so far at Saint Luke's. Everyone there was really great and very caring. Dr. Steinle (dad's rehab doctor) is by far the most caring doctor we encountered at Saint Luke's. I know Dad really enjoyed working with him. Sandy, his physical therapist; Gary, his occupational therapist; and Michelle & Christina, his speech therapists, were all very wonderful to work with. Dad and I had an emotional day Thursday saying goodbye to everyone. Dad made so much progress while he was there!

Thanks for all your prayers so far. Please continue to pray as dad begins a new phase of his therapy!

Britney Rice

MNU Visit

2008-07-23T19:54:00.001-07:00

Monday the staff from Don's office at MNU visited he and Barbara for lunch. They brought along their list of top 10 reasons for "Missing Don". Their visit was good medicine for the Eaton family.
kjw

Sunday, July 20th, 2008

2008-07-20T13:27:00.000-07:00

Here is the update for this week.

Dad is still working on many of the same tasks that he was last week. The next level of therapy will just take a little longer to accomplish because it is so much harder. It will be good to see him 'get over that hump' and move forward. I expect that will happen pretty soon since his physical therapist yesterday (Jill) said that he was so close to moving his right leg when walking. In case you haven't been following the blog, the things he is working on are moving the right leg when walking--he has moved it before, but some days are harder than others. He is also making good progress on moving his arm--especially the bicep and tricep muscles. The speech therapy is going well, that part takes a little longer but I expect that since Dad works so hard it is just a matter of time until he is talking again.

Yesterday Mary Brooke and I spent the day with dad. We went down to the cafeteria for lunch together and had chili dogs and french fries. We had a good time. I am getting ready to take the kids (and Scott) down to have dinner with Dad tonight. He loves to see his grandkids.

Thanks for your prayers!
Britney Rice (Don's daughter)

Friday, July 11, 2008

2008-07-11T16:26:00.000-07:00

Weekly update:

Don is no longer walking inside the parallel bars. He walks on the floor with the aid of a cane and a therapist who assists with his right leg. He has been able to move his right leg forward some on his own this week. They are also doing stretching exercises to keep his hip flexible as that will aide in his walking. The Doctors tell us that usually with therapy the patient will see muscle movement return in the leg first, then arm and then speech. Additionally, the larger muscles return faster than the fine motor muscles. It is wonderful that his hip is coming back. Next would be the quad, calf and finally toes.

Don has gotten his morning routine down to a science. Showering and grooming tasks and putting on his shirt are things he does quite well. Today the therapist got good muscle action from his bicep and tricep. That was very exciting.

Reading comprehension is great for Don and his writing is constantly improving. His speech therapy though difficult is coming along nicely. It is wonderful that he is getting 3 therapy sessions 2 times a day and he is committed to working very hard.

Family training has begun to help Don with his exercises to help with flexibility to help move Don toward coming home as soon as he is able.

As you can imagine, it is a full-time job keeping track of insurance statements and bills as well as working to make things ready for Don when he gets home. Both Britney and Barbara are busy doing whatever is needed so that Don can have the best outcome possible. Josh is anxious to be back and will be amazed at his dad's progress.

The miracle continues!

Thursday, July 10, 2008

2008-07-11T07:20:00.000-07:00

Today the physical therapist who work with Don came to the house to see what challenges Don will have when he comes home. They were very thorough and used a wheelchair to make sure mobility would be possible. There are just a few things that need to be done some major others small. Roger Schmidt and Larry Riggs came after the therapist and did a walk through on the house to see what they could do to assist us. Thanks to all of them for their help on Don's behalf.

Many items should be covered by insurance but the largest being a stairlift for Don as the bedrooms and showers are ALL on the second floor will be quite expensive. If you have any information that would be helpful about this, please let us know. Also, we are waiting on a structural engineer to come and help with issues at the house that will impact further decisions regarding repairs.

Last night Don had a special visitor, Jane Jones who went down to give him a haircut. I am sure he loved that.

Many thanks to all who have volunteered their time and talents. We will keep you posted as needs arise.
kjw

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

2008-07-08T21:28:00.000-07:00

Josh is coming home!! We are so very thankful that he was able to get his transfer and his start date for his new job is in 2 weeks. Please pray for him as he has a condo to sell and the company is NOT paying for his move since he requested the transfer back to Kansas. Although we are glad he is coming home it is not without sacrifice.

Britney has been working hard with Don at St. Luke's - learning about all of his therapy needs and being a great source of strength and encouragement. Her family has also done without mom around so that she can give her days to helping her dad recover.

Barbara has been busy working with volunteers to get things ready for Don's return home and possible sale of the house. She has also been working on the business end of things which is no small task. Her evenings are spent with Don and many overnight stays as well.

As you can see the whole family is busy doing everything they can to help Don with his recovery and return home.

It could not happen without many of you who have volunteered your time and resources and the family is so very greatful. There are still many things to accomplish and we will keep you posted on the blog as those needs arise.
kjw

Monday, July 7th

2008-07-07T20:55:00.001-07:00

Don had some visitors today from MNU. One of the travel groups came and sang for Don. One of Don's many responsibilities has been to work with the travel groups in the past. He very much enjoyed their music and visit.
kjw

Happy 4th of July

2008-07-04T20:22:00.001-07:00

This update is from Britney.
This has been a good week for Dad. He hasn't had any more fevers and his blood clots seem to have taken care of themselves. Today when I got there we went outside for the first time since his stroke. We sat outside all morning with our coffee. The temperature was perfect and we had the atrium outside under the trees all to ourselves. Dad read his horse magazine and then we worked on his writing. We also had our own speech therapy and Dad is doing quite well on his sounds for this week.

When we got back inside he started having some pretty bad pain in his right quad muscle which is quite possibly because of the electric stimulation they are using on his right arm and leg. Hopefully this means those large muscles are "waking up".

This week in physical therapy, besides the electric stimulation, he has been working on walking outside the parallel bars using his cane. He is also working on the NuStep machine. He exercises his left arm and leg to help send messages to his right arm and leg - it is like stepping while seated.

Mom and Grandma Bonham are spending the evening with him and going up to the roof to watch fireworks - if he stays awake.

Happy 4th of July.
Britney
kjw

Thursday, July 3, 2008

2008-07-03T05:31:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was the weekly meeting with Britney, Barbara, Don and the doctors and therapist who work with Don during his rehab. They are very pleased with his progress and of course Don continues to work very hard. He is working on walking with a cane with assistanc and his other therapies are going well also. The doctors are projecting that he may possibly go home in 3 weeks! How exciting that will be. As it gets closer to that time, they will decide about further therapy modes. Thanks be to God for all the miracles that have happened in Don's life.
kjw

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

2008-07-01T19:51:00.000-07:00

Don has started another week of hard work. Right now the progress seems slow, but still demands enormous strength and patience. Please continue to make comments, send notes and of course pray for him. It is easy to get discouraged when the work is so very exhausting. We are working on trying to put a video clip on the blog.
kjw

Sunday, June 29, 2008

2008-06-29T18:33:00.000-07:00

The physical therapy update for today comes from Mary Brooke.
"Papa walked with a cane today. He also had muscle stretching exercises which he doesn't like. He also did muscle strengthing lessons. I told him he did a good job!" I have a feeling Don loved Mary's praise. He also had Dale, his brother, and his wife Lynn as visitors this weekend. The ultimate surprise was a real meal - fried chicken, mashed potatoes, lemonade and even ice cream. A Sunday picnic for the Eaton/Rice family.

Another week of hard work is ahead. Don sounded excited about his progress and Don Walter assured him we could hook him up with some really snazzy cane.
kjw

Saturday, June 28, 2008 4 WEEKS

2008-06-28T05:34:00.000-07:00

It is almost unbelieveable that is has been 4 weeks and what a roller coaster ride it has been.

Here is a glance at Don's week from Britney.

Occupatonal therapy: Dad got to enjoy getting in the shower this week. He loved that! He has mastered shaving, teethbrushing, and combing his hair. The therapist is working on his right arm as well as dexterity of his left. He gave us some games that work on cognition and also left hand dexterity. One of them is called High-Q, it is similar to checkers but is played by one person and with small pegs. First, Gary had him put the pegs on the board. Dad arranged them in the shape of the Greek cross, the board is kind of shaped that way. Gary said that was good. He did well at that game. Dad and I also played war with the deck of cards. He did that one without really having to think so cognitively he is doing very well. Gary left the deck of cards and High-Q for us to play this weekend. At this point, his left hand ( and he is right handed) will be his writing, and other fine motor dominant hand.

Physical therapy:

Dad is doing very well in physical therapy. Every time he walks the bars he gets faster, and also is less tired afterwards. Today he walked the parallel bars three times, very quickly, no panting afterwards. So, they decided to get out the cane. He used the cane while walking inside the parallel bars. He is doing very well. They still manipulate his right leg for him but it is getting stronger. Next week he will transition from the parallel bars to the cane. Also they will have him use the seated step machine.

As far as reading cognition, Dad is doing really well. They keep advancing him to the next level. Also, we have been getting out of his room more. Yesterday we went for a walk around the hospital. We looked around the chapel. I am going to get a Nazarene hymnal because there is a piano on his floor and I thought we could sing some songs he knows.
Today we went down to the cafeteria and had a cup of the good coffee and looked out the window at people. It was fun. It’s good for him to get out of the room, he likes it. He also likes to watch Wheel of Fortune during dinner.

The last 2 weeks have shown amazing improvement and every day he is getting stronger and relearns more things.

kjw

Friday, June 27, 2008

2008-06-27T15:04:00.001-07:00

The Doctors have decided that Don is not a good candidate for the filter device, but there are still blood clots in his lungs and in his flaccid leg. They are using IV blood thinners and Cumadin to take care of that. The scan of his left leg showed no clots and his echocardiogram showed his heart is in great condition.

We continually hear about how phenomenal his progess has been and we are trusting God for that to continue. Thanks so very much for all the prayers.

Thanks also to Ed Runyon and Dan for stretching the carpets at the Eaton home to make sure there are no wrinkles for Don to worry about. And they also cleaned them. THEY LOOK FABULOUS!! Words cannot express how much this means to the family.
kjw

Wednesday evening, June 25, 2008

2008-06-25T16:32:00.000-07:00

PRAYERS REQUEST
This morning Barbara, Don and Britney got a wonderful report from the rehab team at St. Luke's. Don is making steady progress and gaining strengh and endurance every day. HOWEVER, this afternoon a test was done and they found blood clots in his lungs one of them being quite large. They are discussing a procedure that might help, but please pray these clots pass without harm. God has worked great miracles in Don's life in the last 2 weeks and this is another hurdle.
Thank you so much for all your prayers.
kjw

Tuesday Evening June 24, 2008

2008-06-24T19:36:00.000-07:00

Don is impressing everyone with his strength as he improves moving from his bed to a wheelchair to go to therapy. Each day brings greater strength and of course more expectations. Barbara said he is enjoying the cards and comments and is reading them HIMSELF!

Pastor Dennis Apple made us aware of a book, "My Stroke of Insight", by Jill Bolte-Taylor. Barbara and Britney are reading it. It is written by a lady who had a stroke in her early 20's and what it is like in the mind of a stroke victim. The author lists some things that she found helpful. I am going to try to put some in the blog from time to time that would apply to those near and far.

1. Honor the healing power of sleep.

2. Stay in touch. If you have a picture to send that would remind me about you please do that. Please write a message on the back of who you are and how we know each other. ( I hadn't thought about the pictures but what a great idea!)

3. Create a healing team for me. Send the word out to everyone about how I am doing so they can send prayers and words of encouragement. WOW!! we got that one right!!!

2008-06-24T15:07:00.000-07:00

Monday, June 23, 2008

2008-06-23T19:55:00.000-07:00

Don made it back to the 8th floor today. That means hours of therapy both morning and afternoon. Keep up the work Don we are still praying for you. I was with Barbara today when the mail came and she was so very excited about the cards that came. She says Don really enjoys hearing from everyone. She also prints out the blog and comments for him to read. After reading a comment by John and Rhonda, I imagine that they will be working on a name for the new horse. Thanks to John and Rhonda for spoiling Don's horses.
I don't think we have mentioned that there has been another answer to prayer. Josh got his transfer and will be moving back to Olathe when they hire his replacement and he has some training time. It has been very hard on Josh to be far away during this time. We are rejoicing that he will be here in the not too distant future.

kjw

Sunday June 22, 2008

2008-06-22T20:32:00.000-07:00

Don enjoyed visits this weekend from his mother Mary, brother Dale and sister-in-law Lyn. They were amazed of course at his progress. Dale has been assisting Britney with Don's speech therapy for the weekend - those vocalists know about those things. Don walked the parallel bars 3 times today with assistance with his right leg. This is such hard work and exhausting. The therapists are impressed with his strength and determination. Dale and Mary will be returning to western Kansas for harvest. Don is usually a part of that - next year he'll be ready.

The highlight of his day was a visit from Britney's 3 little ones. Their Papa is very special to them and they are great medicine for him.

Thanks so very much to the Hillcrest church where Britney is Minister of Music. Their daycare director Shelly has offered to keep Mary, Matthew and Max ,Don's grandchildren, during the summer so Britney can spend as much time as possible with Don. There has been an amazing outpouring of love and care for the family and Don. They are so very grateful! The lawn is getting mowed, laundry done, and many volunteers willing to assist at every turn. Thanks to all who have offered their help in areas that are their specialties. God has blessed Don and Barbara with wonderful friends and family.
kjw

Saturday, June 21, 2008 3 WEEKS

2008-06-21T20:36:00.000-07:00

Don's brother Dale and his mother Mary came for the weekend. What a difference they see since they left a little over a week ago. The family feels so very blest by all the notes and cards of concern of commitment to prayer on their behalf. What a wonderful testimony to God's miraculous healing touch is being lived out daily in Don. Thanks be to God for his love and care.
kjw

Friday PM June 20, 2008

2008-06-20T19:31:00.001-07:00

The roller coaster ride continues. Since Don has to be fever free for more than 24 hours, he remains on the first floor till Monday - you know hospitals and the weekend. There is conflicting information about possible arterial bypass surgery but for now that is on hold. He practiced walking and is doing great with his speech exercises. He watched a movie today and had a cup of coffee. Oh, how he loves that coffee. He did get moved to a private room and that will help him rest. Let's just say there were some noise issues with his roommate!
Please continue to pray for steady progress with his therapy and guidance for the team that is working with him to maximize his recovery.
kjw

Friday AM June 20, 2008

2008-06-20T08:42:00.000-07:00

Don's fever broke during the night so he is able to do physical therapy but is still a patient of the hospital on the 4th floor not the rehab center. They will work on finding the cause for the fever so they can use appropriate antibiotic and save the SUPER type for emergencies.
kjw

Late Thursday Night

2008-06-19T19:41:00.000-07:00

Mom just called me from the hospital. A new neurologist came in to see Dad tonight. He said that they may consider doing a surgery to bypass the dissected carotid artery. (This is slightly frustrating because we have asked many times why they didn’t want to do a bypass of the artery). However, before they decide they will do a test to see how much blood flow is getting to Dad’s brain and how much of the brain tissue is actually damaged. I hope that if they do this surgery, it will help with his rehabilitation. That’s all I know for now, there are still many questions.

BR

Thursday Evening, June 19, 2008

2008-06-19T17:51:00.000-07:00

Hello!

Dad’s doing really well. He is still working on the same things in physical therapy. He needs to master shifting his weight so that he can walk effectively. She also did some exercises laying down today to see how the right leg would respond without weight on it. She felt some muscle contractions in his hamstring. Speech therapy is also going well. He is doing the exercise for muscles in the articulators very well. He fed himself lunch and dinner; I only take over when he gets too tired. They are working him VERY hard in rehab. He comes back to the room exhausted every time.

Good News and Bad News

Dad had another video swallow test done today. Good news: he passed. He can now drink thin liquids again. I told him I would bring him Starbucks tomorrow. Bad news: while he was there, he got a fever of 103. They had to move him back down to the 1st floor (re-admit him to the hospital). He can’t go back up to his room in the rehab unit until his fever is down. They think it is some kind of infection. They are testing his blood to figure out why. Plus, he now has a roommate and a very small room. The eighth floor rooms are much nicer. So I am hoping he can go back up soon.

Britney

Thursday Afternoon, June 19 2008

2008-06-19T14:39:00.000-07:00

Kathy asked me to post a quick update this afternoon as she is unable to access a computer.

Don started running a fever this afternoon and has been moved back to the Brain and Stroke Center. Please pray that they will be able to find the cause and get his fever down quickly so he can return to the rehab floor.

That's all for now. Kathy will post more when she is able.
Amanda

Thursday June 19, 2008

2008-06-19T12:16:00.000-07:00

Don is working hard and his muscles on his left side are sore from doing all the work for his body. Please pray for steady, continued progress and good nights rest for Don ( also rest for Barbara). His humor is definately intact and according to the nurses his snoring is superb!!

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

2008-06-18T08:02:00.000-07:00

Don continues his very rigorous days of therapy which of course are exhausting. His hearty appetite is back and he has mastered eating by himself. He is also doing great at dressing and moving from his bed to a wheelchair. Every day brings new challenges but as we know, Don works hard and he is making great gains!
kjw

2008-06-16T19:58:00.000-07:00

Update for 6/16/08

When I got to the hospital this morning Dad had already eaten his breakfast. He ate it by himself. Gordon, his PCT, cut it up for him, and he fed himself. He ate it all by the way. He also ate his supper by himself.

Today we had physical therapy (twice), occupational therapy (twice), and speech therapy (twice). Dad’s physical therapy sessions are exhausting to him. They say he will get used to it. He worked on walking, standing, shifting weight, transfer from wheelchair to bed and back, etc. He also did some shoulder exercises.

The speech therapist today said she thinks Dad may have apraxia. Originally they thought he had aphasia. He could have a combination of both (hopefully not), but his therapist said treatment for both conditions is the same. Apraxia is when the patient knows the word he wants to say but his mouth/articulators can’t form the sounds. Aphasia is when the patient cannot think of the word…

Overall he had a good day today. The nurses and technicians on the eighth floor are really great, they are very helpful.

Dad will be spending most of his weekdays doing some type of therapy, eating, or resting for the next therapy session. The best times to visit him are in the evenings. Weekends are also okay because there are less therapy sessions

Britney

Sunday, June 15, 2008 Father's Day

2008-06-15T20:03:00.001-07:00

Don and I went to see Don E. this evening and his humor is intact. Of course, those 2 have inside jokes and 2 or 3 words and they each know "the rest of the story". Don Walter told Don Eaton that the doctors were going to have to write new chapters in their literature all about his amazing recovery.

The following is Britney's daily update:

Hello family and friends!
Last night Mary got to spend the night with Mimi and Papa. Dad was really excited to see her. She had a great time. She got to feed him breakfast this morning. She also has a new student—one that, as she says, can’t run away from her like her brothers. She worked with Dad on writing and saying his speech therapy homework.

When I got there after church they were eating lunch. He ate a lot of his lunch. I brought him pie for father’s day. His favorite—strawberry rhubarb and also chocolate cream. He preferred the chocolate, I think the rhubarb was too tart for his mouth right now.

After lunch, Mom and Mary went home. Dad was settling in for a nap when therapy came for him. We went down to the gym and he worked for about 40 minutes. They had him standing (over and over), shifting his weight from leg to leg, and more practice walking. The therapist said that standing and shifting help to wake up the muscles in his right leg.

Then we went back to his ‘suite’. He took a nap. I put out a sign for no visitors and turned the phone off because he was extremely tired. The therapy had exhausted him. He slept for 2 ½ hours. Tomorrow they will start him on a stimulant drug, provital, to help maximize his therapy. He will need to rest between therapy sessions and take lots of naps in the afternoon so that his brain has the time it needs to heal and provide new connections.

After his nap I worked with him on speech therapy again. I talked to him about the importance of trying to talk whenever he can, even if we don’t understand yet. The more often he tries to talk the better his recovery results will be. We also worked on writing again. Then I gave him dinner. He had every bite of: manicotti, beets, & mango.

They took out his catheter today. So we will be working on independence in that area. I think it does him a lot of good to see Mary so she will be spending the night again soon. She really enjoyed it and she gets good results from working with him. He probably tries a little harder for her.

Britney

Saturday Night PS

2008-06-14T20:02:00.000-07:00

As is the custom on many Saturday nights, Mary Brooke is spending the night with Don and Barbara but at St. Luke's this time. He was thrilled to see her and have her spend the night. It won't be long before they can go for doughnuts together on Sunday morning. Although his voice is weak, there are some words that are coming through and easily understood. The phone calls from his grandchildren are encouraging him and prompting him to respond with his usual Grandpa phrases.
There's a slumber party in the "Eaton suite".
kjw

Saturday, June 14, 2008 Don's Day

2008-06-14T16:02:00.000-07:00

It hardly seems possible that it has only be 2 weeks ago that Don had his first stroke - somehow it seems like months.

Britney is updating for us now as she is with him all day and witness to the amazing progress Don is making.

Please enjoy her thoughts about the day:

When I got there this morning, mom was feeding him breakfast. Good news! His appetite is back. He ate all his eggs, cream of wheat, sausage & gravy, almost three thickened juices and his ‘magic cup’ of fortified chocolate ice cream. Every bit!

Then later, the occupational and physical therapists had sessions with him. They said he was in good shape for rehabilitation. The occupational therapist felt some muscle contraction in the arm and hip. The normal way that patients proceed is to start using the leg first then the arm. For the arm, he will have more movement in his shoulder first, and then eventually wrist and finger movement. The physical therapist said he was doing well. He tried to talk to her a little bit. She said it was good to try to ‘force’ talking as much as possible. So, when we are there we should ask him to use his vocal chords. Also, since dad likes to talk on the phone, we should call him and let him exercise his vocal chords. Last night, he talked to me and Mary on the phone. Paul Wilson was there with him, and he told me that he and Chel distinctly heard Dad tell Mary “I love you”. The physical therapist made an appointment for him to work out in the rehab gym that afternoon.

We also did our speech therapy homework twice this morning.

Then Dad got three visitors at 11:15, so I decided to get a bite to eat so I could be back to help him eat lunch. I told this to the nurses. However, when I returned, his food tray was on the table in front of him, and guess what? He had picked up his bowl of applesauce and was ‘drinking it’. I laughed; it really took me by surprise. At lunch I loaded his spoon sometimes and he fed himself. He gets tired of that after awhile and so I take over. For lunch he had most of his chopped roast beef in gravy and mashed potatoes, all of his pudding and applesauce, some thickened liquids, and all of his vanilla ‘magic cup’.

Then after lunch we waited, waited and waited for them to move him up to his room on the 8th floor. We packed his things and then waited some more. It took longer because they had to discharge Dad from the hospital and then admit him again to the rehab unit. (?). So finally I moved his things up and they said they were coming to pick him up for the gym. This took a lot longer than it sounds, but eventually they did come to get him (in a wheelchair), and we went to the rehab gym. Here’s the really good part: they had Dad practice standing. He stood up very straight and looked very balanced. Then they had him walk. He moved his left leg and the therapist moved his right leg. He walked about three feet. I was very proud of him. Also, when the therapist asked him if it hurt he said “A little bit”. I was standing too far away to hear him (his voice is still weak), but she heard him and he repeated it several times. The therapist thinks he will do really well in rehab. After we got back to the new room and answered a lot of questions, he lay down and fell fast asleep. The therapist said he would be really worn out. I left at 4:30.

A couple of other things--his new room on the eighth floor is room 8436. It is much bigger than his last room and there are four extra chairs. This is also where we will have his group meetings once a week to discuss his progress with all of his therapists and the therapy doctor. He also has his own phone number; it is 816-932-3043. In the rehab unit he will have physical therapy, occupational therapy, and speech therapy in the morning, then lunch, then all three therapies again. It is important to his progress that he rests between therapy sessions. The best time to visit him will probably be in the evening.

More tomorrow!
Britney

Friday Evening , June 13, 2008

2008-06-13T19:27:00.000-07:00

Don had speech therapy twice today and sat in a chair for 2 hours. Since the weekend is coming up, Don has homework which includes chewing gum. He is also going to be working on writing with his left hand which would be a stretch for any of us right-handed folks. He liked his dinner much better than his lunch (lunch - fish and rice, dinner - beef in gravy and potatoes).

We truly know he is on the mend - he can change the channels for the TV ON HIS OWN! Don is back at the controls!

His nurse today told Britney that doctors have come by who have worked with Don previously in the ICU and are amazed by his condition. They are saying "he is an inspiration to them".
Hopefully tomorrow he will be on the 8th floor wearing real clothes and having LOTS of physical therapy.
Keep those comments and cards coming. He really enjoys them. Those words of encouragement will help in the days ahead.
kjw

Friday, June 13, 2008 update

2008-06-13T09:59:00.000-07:00

Well today continues to be a day of MIRACLES. It turns out that Don ate enough by mouth last night that he didn't need supplemental feeding. This morning he sat up a chair for over 30 minutes. He was also able to write most of his name with a pencil. They are looking at moving him to the rehabilitation floor tomorrow to start working out in a gym in real clothes! We can't wait to post those pictures. The hope is that he will be home in 2-4 weeks. Thanks be to God for all the miracles for Don. Please continue to pray as the weeks ahead will include lots of hard work. Please also pray for the many families that we met in the waiting rooms whose loved ones are still critical.
kjw

Thursday Evening , June 12, 2008

2008-06-12T19:31:00.001-07:00

This afternoon Don was taken off his IV's and they are using the stomach peg for medication. They are talking about moving him to the rehabilitation floor as early as tomorrow. Don passed the swallow test today, so they have approved him for solid foods and nectar-consistency liquids. Britney fed him his first meal today at 5:00. He hasn't had ANY food or liquid since May 31st. Tonight he had baked potato, ground pork in gravy, pears a roll and CHOCOLATE CAKE! He certainly was not as excited as we thought he might be about eating.

There were times today when he looked sad when he couldn't do something. This will be difficult as he is always taking care of others as you well know. We will pray for him to not give up during the recovery time. This evening he also made sounds for the first time trying to talk to Britney on the phone.

From Britney- "Thanks for all your prayers, they have made all the difference. It's amazing to think that we have gone from talking about funeral arrangements on Tuesday, to eating chocolate cake on Thursday!"

Certainly we serve a God of miracles. We will update the blog daily and as major events in Don's recovery occur.
kjw

Praise the Lord!

2008-06-12T11:07:00.000-07:00

What an awesome God we serve! Just wanted to share with you something that gave me goose bumps. My understanding is that they gave you Don, a drug called Mannitol. When viewing this on Wikipedia it says, "It was originally isolated from the secretions of the Flowering Ash, called Manna after their resemblance to the Biblical food, and may also be referred to as Mannite and Manna Sugar."

WOW!! Just like "Manna from Heaven"! Love you bunches, my dear cousin. Praise God from whom all blessings flow!

Sandi Hevalow

Thursday Am June 12, 2008

2008-06-12T08:55:00.000-07:00

MIRACLE TIME AGAIN.

I just heard from Briney and Barbara and the doctors and therapist have been in to see Don this morning and here is the GREAT news. The new CT scan this AM showed significant reduction in brain swelling and no bleeding. At this time, they expect nothing but improvement - Thanks be to God. His reading comprehension matching pictures to words was excellent. Don was also able to chew and swallow ice this morning. Later today they will do a more extensive swallow test to see if he can handle pudding etc. He was able to sit up on the side of the bed. He will need to work on balance. They are working on getting him off IV's so that he can move to another floor have more aggressive therapy soon. Praise the Lord He is hearing and answering our prayers. Keep praying.
kjw

Wednesday afternoon June 11, 2008

2008-06-11T15:33:00.000-07:00

WELL, I had to see for myself - sorry God, but he looks great - a little thinner and still thinks Don Walter is funny - but resting peacefully and waking when people come and go. He tried really hard to laugh and I think he surprised himself. The doctors said they have NEVER seen anything like this and they are continually amazed. There will be a new CT scan tomorrow. Thanks so very much for the cards, words of concern, visits, posts on the blog. They all mean so very much to Don and the family. Don enjoyed hearing the cards read to him today so keep those words of encouragment coming and of course the prayers for MORE miracles every day. We have also be able to pray with other families in the waiting room. It is not a happy place. We visit in the halls and elevators and I assure them we would continue to pray for them and their loved ones even though Don is no longer in ICU. His progress, the witness of people praying together have a great testimony to those around him. God is already using this for good.
kjw

Wednesday Update

2008-06-11T08:28:00.000-07:00

Britney talked with the neurologist and they say Don is NOT out of the woods but suprisingly better. He is alert and we are thanking God for His touch on Don and pray he continues to improve.
kjw

Wednesday AM

2008-06-11T06:20:00.000-07:00

More information to follow, but Barbara emailed that Don has been moved to the Stroke and Brain center on the first floor.
kjw

Tuesday PM

2008-06-10T19:53:00.000-07:00

What a day this has been. It has been quite a roller coaster ride for everyone. Barbara said they were not able to waken him all night and then again this AM. The Dr. ordered another CT scan and found more swelling in the brain . There were several very grim hours. Late monring, they gave him the "silver bullet" shot they can only use 100% effectively one time. They called in the Dr. to help with family deal with their loss. About 5:30 Don woke up - bright eyed looking around at people with that new smile gripping hands following people moving around. Everyone was amazed. He rested for a while and then again woke up alert family telling him they would see him tomorrow and that smile and firm hand grasp. About 8:30 it happened again. Barbara's mother was holding his hand and telling him goodnight when a friend remarked hey what about shaking my hand - he let go of Barbara's mothers hand and shook the friends hand!! Thanks be to God for these moments of rejoicing today. God is still working and we still need a miracle. Keep praying and believing.
kjw

Tuesday AFTERNOON

2008-06-10T11:41:00.000-07:00

The doctors have done all they can. Barbara says she believes that God can intervene and will believe that until his last breath. Please continue to believe and pray with us.
kjw

Tuesday AM

2008-06-10T09:30:00.000-07:00

It appears that Don's brain is not responding to the steriods to reduce swelling and there is now spreading of the stroke. The family is with him and counting on the prayers of all of us.
kjw

Tuesday AM

2008-06-10T08:24:00.000-07:00

Some concern this AM will keep you posted. Another time to call on God for another miracle.
kjw

Monday UPDATE

2008-06-09T09:17:00.000-07:00

Don made it through the procedure with flying colors!! Thanks be to God! The feeding tube was put in place with no complications -one more miracle. Thank you for your continued prayers.
kjw

Monday, June 9, 2008 AM

2008-06-09T06:06:00.000-07:00

The doctors met with Barbara this AM and talked about putting the feeding tube in Don's stomach this morning. Everything they do right now is a risky thing. They have scheduled it for 9:00 - 1 hour from now. Please pray for Don to be able to make it through this process without further complications. This process will make it possible for him to be fed and get the tube out of his nose which will be great. Further updates later.
kjw

Sunday, June 8, 2008

2008-06-08T20:04:00.000-07:00

Today was a day of rest. Don was very tired today after a week of much trauma and excitement. They moved him to another NICU room farther away from the nurses station as he is showing improvement. Tomorrow will be one week from the second stroke which is GREAT!!We still continue to see his new smile, shoulder shrug, head nods oh and yes there is that hearty hand squeeze. His brother Dan came today and Josh had to return to Portland at least for the time being. We are praying that he is able to transfer here to help the family. Tomorrow will bring new tests and evaluations as he continues to make progress. Another day of the miracle. Thanks be to God for all He is doing in Don's life.
kjw

ONE WEEK - Saturday Night, June 7, 2008

2008-06-07T20:01:00.001-07:00

Don worked very hard trying to impress everyone with his ability to communicate. His personality is shining through. Those eyebrows, new smile and eyes are speaking volumes. By the way - have you ever shaken hands with Don? What a grip. It is the weekend so no major things taking place - just slow steady progress.
God bless you and keep you this night Don. We all love you and pray for you continually. We are on the journey with you.
kjw

Saturday afternoon

2008-06-07T13:18:00.000-07:00

I just spoke with Britney and Don has been awake and alert much more today. The CT showed no change - the brain swelling has not lessened but it has not increased - another miracle. The Dr. was cautiously optimistic that she thought the swelling would NOT increase . He is resting peacefully.

So many of you have emailed and called wanting to know what you can do. The address is below so you can send cards that Barbara and the kids can read to him Don and Many have also asked about gift cards for gas and food. My suggestion is a generic visa, mastercard or American express card they can use anywhere. He can't have flowers and taking food to the house would be of little use as they are not there.

Don and Barbara Eaton
1003 S Lennox Drive
Olathe, Kansas 66062
kjw

Saturday , June 7, 2008 AM

2008-06-07T06:21:00.000-07:00

I just spoke with Barbara and Don had a good night. He did not have a fever which he has had most evenings. There were also a few times that he woke up without encouragement - you know like shaking and poking . She also said that she observed him moving his right arm toward his body on the bed. At first she thought she imagined it and then the nurses saw him do it too!! Another miracle. Keep those prayers coming. They did another CT scan this morning around 6:00 and the family will know the results later today.
kjw

Friday night terrific news!!

2008-06-06T18:35:00.000-07:00

Today was much better. Dad slept very soundly for most of the day. He woke up and was very alert three times.

A different neurologist’s shift began today and she was much easier to deal with. They also started him on a steroid drip to reduce the swelling. I asked for this yesterday and was told that it would do no good. Evidently, it won’t do him any harm either.

I wanted to share with you something that happened at about 5:30 today. Dad woke up. Both of his eyes were wide open and he spent about 20 minutes interacting with us. When we said something funny he did that wonderful half-smile of his. As we were talking with him we decided to try the communication book they gave us. It is about three sheets of heavy plastic that prompt the patient to point at things to communicate. So, for instance, there is an “I Feel” page and the options are things like scared, angry, happy etc. There is an “I Want” page with things like family, food, TV, there is also a “Yes and No” page. Anyhow, we showed it to dad. He looked at all of the options, then I read it to him (it looked to me like he was already reading them—but..) He looked at the whole page and then reached up with his left hand and turned it to the next page. He read that page, and I read it to him, then he reached up and turned that page. We continued this until we came back to the “I Want” page. He pointed to “I Want” then dragged his finger over to “wife”.

We were so happy. We also showed him a picture of Mary Brooke and asked him “Do you know her?” and he pointed to yes, and smiled. He loved staring at the kids’ pictures whenever he was awake this afternoon. He also smiled a lot, that new smile of his, that I love so much.

We are not by any means out of the danger zone. But this day was such an encouragement to me. I got to tell my dad, with his eyes open and clear, how much I love him and how proud I am of him. I also told him that he was doing “so good.” But I quickly amended that with “so well”. And he smiled.

They also had a time of prayer for Dad at Weatherby Chapel at MNU today.

Britney Rice

Friday, June 8, 2008 afternoon

2008-06-06T15:27:00.000-07:00

Don has a new doctor today and she said there is no change. That is our miracle today. She is also trying a new medication. Mary Brooke made a magical visit today. He loves those grandbabies. Don also sat up today and had some physical sessions. The family wishes to thank everyone for their prayers and words of encouragement.
kjw

ThursdayLate evening, June 5, 2008

2008-06-05T21:34:00.000-07:00

It has been a very mixed day. Most of the day the family felt like he was doing quite well. However, the CT scan showed otherwise. He is running a fever again this evening and sleeping very soundly. The Drs. have worked their earthly miracle and now we rely on our Heavenly Father to do His. The family's faith remains strong and they are counting on the prayers of those who know and love Don.
Barbara and Josh are spending the night again. May the light of day bring good news and the miracle touch of God on Don's body.
kjw

Comments

2008-06-05T07:01:00.000-07:00

Feel free to leave messages for the family. They love reading your messages and Don will enjoy them in the future. I know it is hard to reach them because they are either with Don or home resting. Also, cell phones are not allowed in the area where Don is and it is not possible to return all the phone calls they receive. They are reading the blog and your words of encouragement are much appreciated. Also, during the hours of 6:30-8:30 AM and PM they are not allowed to be with Don while he is in NICU. I know for sure that they are trying to grab some sleep during the AM time and getting dinner during the evening time. If you want to stop by the hospital, there is a phone outside the unit and you can call and have a family member notified that you are there if there is noone in the waiting room.

Wednesday night June 4, 2008

2008-06-04T20:38:00.000-07:00

It was a wonderful time of prayer in Don's room and we could feel your prayers too. Don's breathing relaxed and he seemed to feel the presence of God as Dan prayed for him. After the prayer he opened his eyes and when handed his glasses adjusted them and looked around at all of us. He turned as different ones spoke to him and seemed more relaxed than he had all day. We are truly believing a miracle is already at work in Don's body. He looks great and seemed to enjoy the fact that everyone was there to pray for him. We are encouraged.
Thank you so much for all the prayers.
Barbara and Josh are spending the night again. Britney- Don's daughter, Mary - Don's mother, Dale- Don's brother and Lynn - Dale's wife take the day shifts. Other relatives and friends lend support in the waiting room from time to time.

Please continue to pray for wisdom for the Doctors and nurses as they care for our dear friend and of course continue to pray about the brain swelling.
Our God is a God of miracles.
kjw

Wednesday afternoon

2008-06-04T13:43:00.000-07:00

This evening at 8:30 Dr. Dan Vanderpool is going to anoint Don. Let's all join in prayer at that time.
kjw

Wednesday AM June 4, 2008

2008-06-04T10:19:00.000-07:00

I spoke to Barbara this morning and she said Don had a rough night. The feeding tube needed to be removed and a new one put in. I am so sure he was happy about that. He was also running a fever. The CT scan showed the stroke on Monday was much worse than the one on Saturday night.

Here is the pray need for today and the next 3-5 days. It is imperative that the brain swelling be minimal . The Dr. explained to the family that because Don is so young, he does not have as much room for swelling to occur as an elderly person would have. The consequences would be devastating. Please pray for his brain to have minimal swelling during the next few days.
kjw

Tuesday Evening June 3, 2008

2008-06-03T17:29:00.000-07:00

I sp0ke with Britney this evening and here is an update. Don had a much better day - not having surgery will do that for you. He had several tests run one of them being a swallow test which he failed. Therefore, he has a feeding tube which is such a joy and he is so very thrilled to have. Another test was a CT scan for which they will find out the results tomorrow. We are praying for the best possible senario. Hopefully minimal damage and swelling of the brain. This will help determine the aggressiveness of the therapy which actually began today. He will have therapy 3 times a day and hopefully be out of ICU by the beginning of next week.

The best part of the day was a visit from not so little Mary his darling grand-daughter - the apple of his eye. It was determined that a good dose of Mary every day will be needed for a speedy recovery.

The Dr. was more positive today stating that Don's age (54 - that is young you know) and his overall good health will greatly help him in his recovery. The next 3-5 days are still critical - no more clots being passed and no more strokes. The family is so very thankful for all the friends and family who have come to hang out in the lobby and check in with the family when they take breaks. Keep those prayers coming.
kjw

2008-06-03T11:22:00.000-07:00

Believers around the world are praying for Don. God is a God of miracles and we are believing that we will see one happen with Don. The Generals for the Church of the Nazarene are spreading the word and prayers are being prayed wherever they are meeting. Thanks be to God for the prayers and faith of believers.
kjw

Tuesday morning

2008-06-03T07:36:00.000-07:00

Barbara says that Don was restless last night. I understand that is common for stroke patients as they are assessed every hour. I am sure he is glad to have Josh home. My prayer for today is that he can rest and stablize. One day not too far in the future we will all celebrate his miracle.
Thanks to all for your prayers, calls and emails.
kjw

June 3, 2008

2008-06-02T23:22:00.000-07:00

It is 1:20 AM and Josh arrived safely and is spending the night at the hospital with Barbara and Don. Don was resting.